Void the Pitfalls of Food Reward!

Void the Pitfalls of Food Reward!

Many of your food behaviors stem back to childhood.  Though mama taught us to eat breakfast, she also gave us a plate of cookies with a glass of milk when you didn’t feel well.  When you made a good grade, you would take a trip to McDonald’s.  When you won a ballgame, you got ice-cream.  There always seems to be a time to celebrate or medicate with food.  This is destructive behavior.

Science also supports the notion that we create neuro-associations to food for reward, even when you’re not hungry.  This makes this behavior one of the most difficult to break, as you can find a means to reward yourself for accomplishments of which you normally would not reward.  Make sense?

For example, after a hard day at work, patting fires, and dealing with traffic, you finally make you’re way back home to end the day.  Then the little devil pops up on your your shoulder and says, “You worked really hard today! You should go get a greasy cheeseburger with fries and a shake," or it may say,  "Cupcake!”  Then the devil says, "just one more time!"  But, you know that little devil is you that's talking. The mental processes (what you're thinking) drives the physiological desire and vice versa.  You also know as well as I do that it's silly to reward yourself with something so trivial.  There's always going to be good days and bad days.  Save the celebrations.

By the way, it's also dangerous to reward yourself with food when you achieve weight loss or fitness goals too! Especially if you already have these behaviors, you will eventually find yourself going in reverse.

In order to break this negative behavior, you have to change your perspective.  In other words, you have to understand that every time you reward or treat yourself with food, you are actually punishing yourself.  When you do this, chances are you will have more bad days than good.  There are long-term consequences.  If you reward yourself with things that may actually help you relax without all the calories, chances are you will have more better days than good!

Here are some better ways to reward and de-stress yourself:

• Get a massage
• Watch a movie
• Play golf, go bowling, or play mini-golf
• Go for a run
•  Organize something, like your closet
• Listen to music
• Walk the dog
• Do some gardening

Understandably, you may not look at some of these things as rewards.  However, you have to change your attitude.  What you see in everyone of these tips is that there are no long term consequences.  If anything, you achieve a true reward.  One of the other benefits of these rewards is that it keeps your mind off of food (with exception of gardening, which is good food)!  

written by:
Kelly Huggins, A-CPT
Exercise Sci., BS
Fitness Together Expert Fitness/Nutrition Coach